ETIQUETTE & DETAILS
ETIQUETTE
Please present my consideration in cash only upon meeting.
The funds should be in an open envelope.
If in public please gift it in a greeting card, gift bag, or in a book
Please be respectful, kind, and clean.
Please be showered within one hour of our date.
Otherwise you’re welcome to take advantage of the bathroom in our hideaway.
You know when you need to freshen up -
I am sensitive to scents, so please no heavy cologne. (Thank you!!)​
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CORRESPONDENCE
After I receive your booking form/email, I should respond within 24 - 48 hours.
If you do not receive a response, please check your spam folder or contact me directly at -
CONFIRMATION
A couple of days before our date I’ll email you to confirm that we are all set.
Please respond the same day to confirm & I’ll send you the details
Then we’ll get to look forward to seeing each other soon!
NO CONFIRMATION
If I don’t hear from you to confirm by 8pm the night before our date it is a cancellation.
This very rarely happens as it’s easy to get in touch with me.
SCREENING
Privacy is extremely important to me.
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The screening options that I utilize are below for your review.
I ask that you select two of the following options.
I will not be convinced to use other options.
Linked In
200+ connections & my private, discreet screening profile.
My screening profile is non-industry and totally under the radar.
Work Email
An email with only your First & Last name sent from your work account.
It must be from an actual company account (not from gmail)
You will absolutely NEVER receive a response to your work email.
Government ID
I may ask for a photo of your government ID & to take a selfie with it.
This is purely for screening and I delete all information after it is complete.
If you cannot trust me with your personal info,
then I cannot trust you with my personal safety.
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NON-DISCRIMINATION
I want you to feel safe being yourself when we’re together
I do not discriminate on the basis of race, ethnicity, religion, or ability.
If there is anything that I need to know beforehand please tell me ahead of time.
My minimum age requirement is 25
GIFTING
At this stage in my life, I value security, practical, & enriching gifts most of all.
Therefore, I primarily accept funds (cash tips, Venmo & CA) as well as gift cards.
Seamless & private.
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Gifting Funds - dinner, fitness, groceries, spa, rent, student loans, and investments.
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GIFT CARDS
Reach out to request my private email for gift cards and CA & Venmo booklanavandam@gmail.com
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Thank you for helping to enrich my life! I very much appreciate it.
FAQ
frequently asked questions
What do you love about being a companion?
It allows me to combine what I truly love – connection, intimacy, & sharing amazing, unique experiences. Giving you the space to be your truest self brings me great joy. My background and life experiences allow me to fit well into any setting we may choose to explore together. Whether we're at a spa or the Phillies game, I just really love experiencing life with you. Sensuality and laughter are the best medicine.
where are you located?
I am based in Philadelphia and New York, so if I have availability I am able to meet you in either city with 1 day's notice. I also love FMTY's and enjoying other cities and locales on your arm.
what kind of music do you listen to?
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I like to listen to a variety of music. My favorite kinds are old school hip hop from the 90's like Talib Kweli and Mos Def as well as Gangstarr. I also like Kendrick Lamar, J Dilla, J. Cole, etc. Lots. I love the Kills, Pixies, LCD Soundsystem, Sylvan Esso, and more. I'm always excited to learn about new artists, but I have a soft spot for old school.
what do you like to do in your spare time?
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During my spare time I like to watch documentaries, go out to eat with friends, go shopping, go to the spa, go for walks around the city and along the water. I'm a very low key person. I do like going to baseball games, and I love going to the botanical gardens as well. I also collect vintage jewelry and absolutely love going to museums and design shops.
where are you from? do you like traveling?
I am from the Main Line - suburbs of Philadelphia, though I lived in NY for over 10 years. I enjoy exploring cities all over, however! One of my favorite things is to go swimming in pools - I love resorts so much. I can't wait to explore all over the world. The south of France has been my favorite so far, but perhaps we can find somewhere even more amazing together. Wherever we go, I'll be ready and happy to have a great time together.
How do you dress?
I typically dress in a feminine, understated & classic manner – a tad preppy. I prefer not to be flashy – it’s just not my personal style. I like to fly under the radar while still looking lovely. I also rock jeans and t shirts equally well. No matter where we are I'll look lovely and you'll feel like the luckiest guy around.
