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LANA VAN DAM

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About

Analog girl in a digital world.

Based in New York City 

I moved to New York for art school in 2004, and outside of a few years away, I’ve been here ever since. As a young artist, I was lucky to be mentored by those who helped shape this city’s culture long before social media. For a long time, the downtown scene was my home base - a world of filmmakers, artists, and creatives who valued the unvarnished over the filtered.

I hold a BA in Fine Art and Sociology with a concentration in critique and political art, an MFA in Visual Studies, and a Graduate Gemologist degree, which led to a career in the diamond industry. I came up listening to Nas while navigating the city with no phone, back when you actually had to know where you were going or figure it out on the fly.

Whether it was unboxing McQueen, hand-delivering a quadro tourbillon, assisting public figures, or handling diamonds, it was all just part of the job. Discretion is my second language. Native New Yorkers taught me how to navigate the streets and showed me secret corners most people never get to see. It’s where I honed an eye for design, history, and the quiet craftsmanship that usually goes unnoticed.

For years, I worked behind the curtain helping high-profile men orchestrate their personal travel and private lives. I know the quiet mechanics of true luxury - the subtle details, the seamless logistics, and the effortless execution required to make an escape feel entirely friction-free.

 

I know how to curate an experience where you don't have to manage a single thing, allowing you to completely switch off.

I’ve always preferred the understated intimacy of an off-the-beaten-path cabin in the Hudson Valley or a quiet, fog-hung morning on the North Fork over the loud pomp and circumstance of the Hamptons.

 

Give me a wood-fired sauna hidden in the pines, a long, sun-drenched lunch at an empty coastal farm stand, or a midnight swim in a private pool over a velvet-rope scene any day.

 

For me, the ultimate luxury isn't about being seen.

It's about disappearing together.

As a plus model, I learned not just to love my body, but to celebrate my curves, and realized I was most successful when I was truest to myself. A few years ago, I stumbled into companionship and never looked back. It felt like the final piece of the puzzle.  Connecting with you comes naturally to me.

I do best with men between 35 and 65 who are hungry for authenticity and natural chemistry. Gen X and Millennial men in particular love my intellect, my sense of humor, and my ability to absolutely blow your mind sexually. I treat sexual chemistry as an art form, and I am fully devoted to the craft.

You can always be your true self with me. You can let your guard down. I love giving you the space to just be yourself and explore your deepest desires, specializing in an authentic, natural girlfriend experience with

an open mind to, and experience with, kink.  In particular, the way consensual submission to a man that I trust feels incredibly natural and sexy.

Let’s turn off our phones and create our own secret universe.

Your thoughts and fantasies are safe with me. Let me take you to a place where you can truly forget the demands of your day-to-day. You’ll return to your life refreshed and with a new enthusiasm for it.

 

My men value quiet sophistication and real connection.

For those who know, nothing else will do.

xx Lana

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authors & artists

Alexandra Fuller

Patricia Highsmith

Ai Weiwei

tomi ungerer

Tara Donovan

Cindy Sherman

documentaries

Far Out Isn't Far Enough

Objectified

Paris is Burning

Fish People

Beauty is Embarrassing

 music

J Dilla

Kendrick Lamar

ISAIAH RASHAD

Nine Inch nails

LCD Soundsystem

Massive Attack

MF DOOM

films

Rear Window

Moonlight

Great Expectations  Children of Men 

Place Beyond the Pines

 Wet hot American summer HIGH FIDELITY

television

Russian Doll

EASY

Master of NonE

High Maintenance

taste

Arnold Palmers

refreshing mocktails

sushi, French BISTRO,

american tavern,

I love hidden gems

© 2026 by Lana van Dam

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